When friendz fight!!!!!!

Am sure every single soul on this earth who has one genuine friend would have experienced what it is like when the dear person is not in touch.... It creates unfathomable, unexplainable and unbearable pain which would make u feel that dying is better... or u could jus melt urself away rather than face it..... jus disappear..... One small misplaced word, misplaced emotion can play havoc.... Its true that u could jus start talking to an perfect stranger n become thick friends..... such things happen very rarely..... Friendship is like a sapling which needs constant attention and care to hold to its ground firmly....its based on this stability that the small plant grows into a tree and bestows bountiful joy......

When friends fight, the entire world comes crumbling down.... small things and incidences which had resulted in a laughter riot earlier seems irritating and mundane...... Betrayal, disappointment, anger, frustration, aloofness, depression, irritability...... the feeling is a mixture of all these.....and above all, its the pain..... the heart aches incessantly...the only wishful feeling is 'how i wish it had not happened!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!' ............We tend to think 'Oh God, y with me????'

Its a person's ego that prevents him/her from talking out the misunderstanding..... The smallest misunderstanding, if left unattended to, can cost a lifetime unhappiness (because u can never forget a genuine friend no matter how bad he/she had been to u) whenever a thought about that (ex) friend crosses ur mind..... Of course, there are some who talk at the friend's back..... I dont include them here.... they jus simply dont deserve...
Its been well said that ' A person can cope-up with the death of a close friend (the fond memories are enough to keep one going), but not with the death of friendship'. It creates a lacuna in the heart which no one else can fill.....

A moment of stupidity could destroy a friendship, but jus imagine the world of happiness it would bring if u could sort it out??? At times a third person may be needed to tighten those loosened nuts...... So never let go a chance of being a screwdriver....it could make a world of difference to someone... Its only that i dont have a screwdriver....

So people, think twice...... Learn to shed ur egos a bit... n never hesitate to give ur friend a second chance....... Maybe that could be your only chance.......i did it n am happy i did..... Yes, the hard feelings cannot be cured completely, at least they could be tended to with ur friend's regained love and affection
Dont let betrayal be the reason for remembering ur friend!!!!!!

Friendz forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!